Published: August 08, 2008 10:42 pm         

Budgeting can free up extra income

EDMOND — Edmond resident Lindy Van Komen is a stay-at-home mom with three rambunctious young children. She and her husband Jeff have valued being debt free so they can enjoy life more and have fewer financial worries.

These days, with talk of the mortgage crisis continuing, the up-and-down price of oil and rising grocery prices, families like the Van Komens have plenty to worry about.

Van Komen said because she is a stay-at-home mom and her husband is a post-doctorate fellow, her family pays attention to what they spend.

While spreadsheets may help some individuals track their spending, Van Komen said her family uses another method. At the beginning of each month, they withdraw cash from the bank for household needs, for anything that isn’t a bill that comes in the mail. When the cash runs out, that’s it for the month.

“It works pretty well when we’re on top of it,” Van Komen said. “It takes discipline and foresight.”

Van Komen said her family tried line-item budgeting, but it didn’t work for them. She said for herself it is better to have some flexibility.

Amy Petty, chief operations officer with Edmond-based Allegiance Credit Union, said most people view the word “budget” as a four-letter word.

“The budget is not a bad thing,” Petty said. “If it is done correctly, it is actually a very positive experience.”

Having a budget simply means the individual is going to “tell” their money what to do, Petty said. If they want to blow $100 a month, and can afford it, then budget for it.

Petty said budgeting lets individuals see how much money is needed to sustain the standard of living they are accustomed to and if they actually can afford to continue living in that way.

The first step for making a budget is finding a doable template. Petty said she personally uses financial guru Dave Ramsey’s budget template. Other versions are available on the Internet or in the local library or book store.

“Review each category of spending and realistically document what the family should spend,” Petty said. “This is not a time to lie to yourself. You need to be realistic and not just try to make the numbers look good.”

After creating a budget, it’s committee meeting time, Petty said. Call together those in the family who should be included in the discussion. Give them the budget and let them make suggestions.

The main rule here is that anyone who suggests raising the amount allocated to a category must give a suggestion as to which category to lower in order for the budget to balance, Petty sad.

“We aren’t Congress so we have to balance our budget,” Petty said.

If the conversation gets intense, then take a break an come back when everyone is less emotional, Petty said. There should be no blaming during the budget meeting. Be willing to compromise and understand that it takes a few months before the new budget will actually work as intended, Petty said.

Petty said the long-term benefit of budgeting for many people is that they report feeling as if they got a pay raise. Money has a way of just disappearing when it is not being tracked, she said.

“Once you begin budgeting your money, you will have more of it,” Petty said. “You will find you don’t waste nearly as much money as you did before budgeting.”

Van Komen suggested that individuals find their strengths and use a system tailored to them. If a spreadsheet helps, use a spreadsheet, she said.

Despite the headlines about the economy, these are good times, Van Komen said. Families have control of their own personal finance, and if they make wise choices, there’s room for optimism, even if sacrifices have to be made, she said.



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