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Consultation a must in divorce cases
EDMOND — Q: “I left for work on the morning of Dec. 21 with a kiss goodbye from my husband. When I arrived at work, a process server delivered a Petition for Divorce. I don’t know if I need a lawyer. If I do, how do I find the right one for me? Help!” — Claire from Edmond
A: It is unfortunate that the most vulnerable time in your life is the same time you are forced to be swift and levelheaded. The first actions you take will lead you down a path of redemption or disaster, and time is definitely not on your side. Your husband has obviously planned his attack for some time, and you now have only a few days to protect your interests.
The old adage “A person who represents himself, has a fool for a client” is more true with a divorce case than any other area of the law. Divorce is one of the most difficult emotional times in life, yet important, unemotional actions are required. A family law practitioner will be able to help you through the difficult emotions to assist you in making the correct decisions for the future.
Many lawyers will agree to meet with you for an initial consultation without charge. These meetings are important for you to interview the lawyer to ensure compatibility and trust. Lawyers have different ways of conducting these meetings. Some have non-lawyers meet with the client first, and the procedures used vary greatly.
The attorney will discuss the steps of going through a divorce, from the beginning to the end. He or she will listen to your individual situation, and explain the possible outcomes of each decision. Together, the attorney and client will form a strategy to obtain the desired outcome. Trust must be established from the beginning. You should come away with a clear understanding of what the fees and expenses will be, and what you can expect from your attorney.
Claire, I encourage you to hire a lawyer, explain your situation, discuss with the lawyer your desired outcome and develop the best strategy to achieve the result you desire.
GEORGE FREEDMAN is a partner with Lester, Loving & Davies law firm in Edmond. He may be reached via e-mail at gfreedman@lldlaw.com. More information about the firm may be found at www.lldlaw.com.
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